We can be confident that there's always a new learning opportunity around here!
Here's a quick overview of recent events:
1. The Census was extended through Monday evening. Crazily disorganized -- the news changed regularly on what the schedule was going to be. For most people, the word-of-mouth system didn't work so well. Even in my small world, I'm aware of many people who didn't even get counted. So, the results are -- an inaccurate count, loss of wages, heavy loss of money for companies that had to sit on their jobs until today, frustrated people, but many happy folks who had a holiday and got to enjoy their families. Boy, was the traffic crazy today, though. Prince took me out to run errands and I do think the entire country was out running errands!!
2. First experience with malaria; Lucy got it. She'd been feeling sick on Saturday but I didn't know that because she got stuck off of the camp Friday night and couldn't get back due to the census. So, Monday morning she somehow got back though no movement was allowed. I could tell right away that she was not well. Eventually, I just let her go to her quarters and sleep. Today, she didn't show up for work and she couldn't phone me because she had no working phone. So, skipping the details -- I visited her this afternoon and she looked BAD! She said she'd had malaria once and this felt the same. Malaria kills -- always -- if it's not caught in time. Usually about a week after onset of symptoms its over. So, she said she was planning on trekking (that's walking a long distance) after dark (to avoid the heat of the day) to a clinic to get tested. She really doesn't like to ask for any help and she tries to maintain social boundaries.
Well, I threw those crazy notions out and called Prince. He came back on the camp, got our car, picked me up, picked up Lucy, took her to the clinic and stayed with her during the waiting for the results. I stayed in the car because I knew if they saw a white woman, they'd charge double! She tested positive so Prince then drove to a pharmacy where they talked with a nurse and got the right meds.
The toughest part for Lucy was that I made her sit in my kitchen when we got back while I cooked her something to eat so that she wouldn't get sick when she took the meds. Another maid is going to stay with her tonight. She's got to take the meds during the night and for the next 3 days and then all should be well. She had no money and no one to help her get anywhere. So, it's easy to see how millions die of malaria each year. They are afraid to spend the money on a test, or they simply don't have the money nor the access to a test. Simple solutions aren't so simple, here. So, I'm thanking God for Lucy and for His protection over her.
3. Prince is another amazing guy! I'm in awe of the survival skills of these folks! He's 30, the eldest son (the first issue), and has put 3 brothers through the university while he's been driving bus, taxi, and now driving for Jim's company. His father died a year ago, yesterday, and the memorial service is this weekend. Yes, it's one year after the person's death. I'll write more about that, later. Anyway, Prince would love to have had a university education or to have gone to the U.S. for work but nothing has worked out so far. He's lost a bundle of money twice, trying to help out family members. But he keeps saying that He knows God will provide for his needs and that maybe he'll even get some extra blessings! I love visiting with him about politics, Nigerian traditions, etc. He's very bright, as is Lucy, but they've just never had the opportunities we take for granted in the U.S.
'gotta stop for now. Jim's here and we're fixing our first local crab, tonight, for dinner. Also, the power just went out -- fortunately my laptop has a battery and the phone lines are not effected! But it does complicate the dinner prep. Oh, it's back on already!!
Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Saturday, March 25, 2006
Thursday, March 23, 2006
Feeble photo attempts
This has been an all-morning project, with many failed attempts at loading photos. So, I'll be happy with these two successes for now and will try again, later. Here are two house photos, for the many of you who emailed requests for such things! For a larger view, just click the photo.

This view is from our dining area, into the sitting room, with the patio just beyond.
This is a closer view of the patio.

This view is from our dining area, into the sitting room, with the patio just beyond.
This is a closer view of the patio.
Census Nonsense
So, since Nigeria had their first "legal" election that didn't end in a military coup, this is their first attempt at a census. It's political, of course. Some think it's a valid attempt to account for everyone so that in the next election in February, the voting rosters won't get so corrupted. Others think it's a way of actually manipulating the names and locations of people so that certain states can get more power. All speculation -- all based upon distrust from many years of instability. Anyway, what we know is that this census-taking is crazy!!
First, it was supposed to begin on Tuesday across the whole nation and last through Saturday. That meant a lot of lost revenue, etc. so they altered that plan on Sunday and announced that it would be regionally organized and that our area would have the census this Friday and Saturday. (Of course, most of the people don't get news because they have no TV and the lack the extra cash to purchase a paper so the news is announced the good-ole-way -- word of mouth.) So, plans have been changing around here all week. First, the word was -- no movement all week. Then it was -- no movement Friday and Saturday. Then, Jim got two opposing emails late last night that lead us to total bewilderment. So, this morning, Lucy (who is staying at the maid's quarters all week just to avoid confusion and getting stuck off-camp) said that the census began this morning -- hearing it from a worker who snuck down the streets early.
Indeed, no contractors or workers who live off the camp have arrived, today. So, the census has begun. What does that mean? Well, everyone has to stay in their residence until a census-taker has counted their heads, filled out papers, and marked their thumb with permanent ink. Then, they are free to move if they carry their papers with them. Most of the average Nigerians have no address. And you thought "turn left at the big oak tree just past Pete's red barn" was bad. In the cities it's more like clusters of families, maybe 20 groups, all living in one area that has no address -- shanties attached or leaning on each other. In the villages it's just huts under trees that are accessible by river or by foot paths. Certainly, these areas have never been mapped. (In fact, getting a detailed map of the cities is even impossible.)
So, I figure that the officials already have a number in mind. To be accurate they should probably say that Nigeria's population is 250 million, plus or minus one hundred million. In the mean time, people are without income for three days -- a serious thing when you eat what you earn each day.
And about pictures. Many of you have emailed requests for more photos. I spent 2 hours on it already this morning to no avail. With dial-up, very slow dial-up that is, the ability to load photos goes in spurts but you never know it will it's a good spurt until you try. So, I will try again. Thanks for your patience!
First, it was supposed to begin on Tuesday across the whole nation and last through Saturday. That meant a lot of lost revenue, etc. so they altered that plan on Sunday and announced that it would be regionally organized and that our area would have the census this Friday and Saturday. (Of course, most of the people don't get news because they have no TV and the lack the extra cash to purchase a paper so the news is announced the good-ole-way -- word of mouth.) So, plans have been changing around here all week. First, the word was -- no movement all week. Then it was -- no movement Friday and Saturday. Then, Jim got two opposing emails late last night that lead us to total bewilderment. So, this morning, Lucy (who is staying at the maid's quarters all week just to avoid confusion and getting stuck off-camp) said that the census began this morning -- hearing it from a worker who snuck down the streets early.
Indeed, no contractors or workers who live off the camp have arrived, today. So, the census has begun. What does that mean? Well, everyone has to stay in their residence until a census-taker has counted their heads, filled out papers, and marked their thumb with permanent ink. Then, they are free to move if they carry their papers with them. Most of the average Nigerians have no address. And you thought "turn left at the big oak tree just past Pete's red barn" was bad. In the cities it's more like clusters of families, maybe 20 groups, all living in one area that has no address -- shanties attached or leaning on each other. In the villages it's just huts under trees that are accessible by river or by foot paths. Certainly, these areas have never been mapped. (In fact, getting a detailed map of the cities is even impossible.)
So, I figure that the officials already have a number in mind. To be accurate they should probably say that Nigeria's population is 250 million, plus or minus one hundred million. In the mean time, people are without income for three days -- a serious thing when you eat what you earn each day.
And about pictures. Many of you have emailed requests for more photos. I spent 2 hours on it already this morning to no avail. With dial-up, very slow dial-up that is, the ability to load photos goes in spurts but you never know it will it's a good spurt until you try. So, I will try again. Thanks for your patience!
Wednesday, March 22, 2006
Good things
We continue to feel grateful for our experiences here in Nigeria. Jim is enjoying his work, though the pressure is very high. I love the flexibility he has -- home for lunch very often, home to work on things on his laptop in the evenings. Right now, we are both sitting in the patio, each on our laptops, working under the inspiration of the trees, flowers, and gurgling fountain that provide our backdrop. (OK, with the occasional squawking of birds that are like crows with a priest's white collar.)
We'll eat at the clubhouse, tonight -- sitting out by the pool. We can eat a huge meal, each, for about $8 to $10 U.S. dollars. Then Jim will go back to his office to finalize his presentation for a meeting with clients tomorrow.
Tomorrow, Jim will walk to work (about a leisurely 3 minute stroll) and then meet our driver later in the morning for the drive to the client's office. Yes, that's another good, actually fantabulous thing -- we got our car and driver, provided by the company. When Jim doesn't need him, Prince, our driver, is available to take me anywhere I need to go. First, about the car and driver, then about where he took me today: the car is a brand new -- still-had-the-plastic-on-the-seats Honda Civic that is a beautiful metalic bronze-like mix between gray and tan. What is that color called? See, my English is fading! And Prince is a very experienced driver who has worked for Jim's company a long time and speaks English, Pidgen English, Yoruban, and French (from years of living in Cameroon and another French-speaking African country). He's a great asset -- describing all of what we see as we drive and throwing in a lot of politics as well! For instance, he predicts (as we've heard from others) that Nigeria will become 3 nations sometime fairly soon -- the Hausa in the north, the Igbo in the east (remember Biafra?), and the Yorubans in the west. We shall see -- unity is not a word to describe anything we see here, even inside the camp when I think about it.
So, Prince took me, Lucy, and a friend from Brazil, Daniela, to the most local of all truly Nigerian markets -- Borokiri Market. The smells about knocked me out when we got out of the car to begin our adventure. I thought I was going to insult everyone staring at us by, right in front of them, vomiting on their trash piles. That's where the horrific smells were originating -- for the most part, at least. But I begged God to help me keep control and smiled, stopped inhaling, and moved forward. Next time we go there (and we will, for sure 'cuz we loved it!) I'm definitely taking my camera. This time I wanted my hands free for shopping.
We had already determined that we didn't want to buy any food items -- buying flour out of an open basket that hands have been in and birds have flown over, well, let's just say that I'm not turning any of that into a sheet of cookies! The fish were attracting flies more than people. The little snail-like seafood things were, well, stinky! OK, you get the point. No food was the best decision. So, we moved on to the area that had other products -- about a 20 minute stroll past vendors that were shouting "ogibo" (remember, the "g" is silent so it sounds like o-ee-bow) which means "white" or "white person." They shouted a whole lot of other things that we couldn't understand but Lucy assured us it was all nice! Sometimes they shouted out "African Woman" (but it's pronounced -- af-ree-kaan woa-maan) to Lucy. We were quite the oddity, Daniela and I, because this is not a typical shopping place for expats. In fact, we are the only 2 on the whole camp who would think of going to this market. We felt totally safe, which is the concern of the other women on the camp. We just, definitely, needed showers upon returning home and we definitely didn't drink anything -- even if it was in a bottle.
Anyway, this bargaining routine is getting to be fun! I got a clothes drying rack, one that I'd seen in the standard "super market" for 7500 naira. OK, drum role please -- I got it for 2000 naira. I'll admit it, Lucy was a huge help and Daniela needed one, too. So, after he got down to 2500 for one, I said that we needed two and we'd give him 4000 for both. When we started to walk away, he readily agreed! At another stand, I got 2 handmade baskets (woven from thin palm-tree strings) each for 150 naira. So much fun! 1 US dollar is exchanging for around 145 naira right now. Yep, that means a basket that is a large fruit basket size, handmade in the state just north of us, without flaws, for about a buck!
So, next time we go -- Daniela, Lucy, and I -- I'll take pictures. Lucy had such a blast -- even riding in the car was a total treat for her -- waving to workers as we drove out of the camp.
I'll write more about her, soon. I've learned so much about her difficult life. What a dear!
Before I close this out, a bit more news: I'm going to start teaching a children's Bible class and Jim and I will be starting a couples' Bible Study in the home of an Indonesian couple who are very sweet and so wanting to grow in their walk with Jesus.
So many good things, all from the Giver of all good things!
We'll eat at the clubhouse, tonight -- sitting out by the pool. We can eat a huge meal, each, for about $8 to $10 U.S. dollars. Then Jim will go back to his office to finalize his presentation for a meeting with clients tomorrow.
Tomorrow, Jim will walk to work (about a leisurely 3 minute stroll) and then meet our driver later in the morning for the drive to the client's office. Yes, that's another good, actually fantabulous thing -- we got our car and driver, provided by the company. When Jim doesn't need him, Prince, our driver, is available to take me anywhere I need to go. First, about the car and driver, then about where he took me today: the car is a brand new -- still-had-the-plastic-on-the-seats Honda Civic that is a beautiful metalic bronze-like mix between gray and tan. What is that color called? See, my English is fading! And Prince is a very experienced driver who has worked for Jim's company a long time and speaks English, Pidgen English, Yoruban, and French (from years of living in Cameroon and another French-speaking African country). He's a great asset -- describing all of what we see as we drive and throwing in a lot of politics as well! For instance, he predicts (as we've heard from others) that Nigeria will become 3 nations sometime fairly soon -- the Hausa in the north, the Igbo in the east (remember Biafra?), and the Yorubans in the west. We shall see -- unity is not a word to describe anything we see here, even inside the camp when I think about it.
So, Prince took me, Lucy, and a friend from Brazil, Daniela, to the most local of all truly Nigerian markets -- Borokiri Market. The smells about knocked me out when we got out of the car to begin our adventure. I thought I was going to insult everyone staring at us by, right in front of them, vomiting on their trash piles. That's where the horrific smells were originating -- for the most part, at least. But I begged God to help me keep control and smiled, stopped inhaling, and moved forward. Next time we go there (and we will, for sure 'cuz we loved it!) I'm definitely taking my camera. This time I wanted my hands free for shopping.
We had already determined that we didn't want to buy any food items -- buying flour out of an open basket that hands have been in and birds have flown over, well, let's just say that I'm not turning any of that into a sheet of cookies! The fish were attracting flies more than people. The little snail-like seafood things were, well, stinky! OK, you get the point. No food was the best decision. So, we moved on to the area that had other products -- about a 20 minute stroll past vendors that were shouting "ogibo" (remember, the "g" is silent so it sounds like o-ee-bow) which means "white" or "white person." They shouted a whole lot of other things that we couldn't understand but Lucy assured us it was all nice! Sometimes they shouted out "African Woman" (but it's pronounced -- af-ree-kaan woa-maan) to Lucy. We were quite the oddity, Daniela and I, because this is not a typical shopping place for expats. In fact, we are the only 2 on the whole camp who would think of going to this market. We felt totally safe, which is the concern of the other women on the camp. We just, definitely, needed showers upon returning home and we definitely didn't drink anything -- even if it was in a bottle.
Anyway, this bargaining routine is getting to be fun! I got a clothes drying rack, one that I'd seen in the standard "super market" for 7500 naira. OK, drum role please -- I got it for 2000 naira. I'll admit it, Lucy was a huge help and Daniela needed one, too. So, after he got down to 2500 for one, I said that we needed two and we'd give him 4000 for both. When we started to walk away, he readily agreed! At another stand, I got 2 handmade baskets (woven from thin palm-tree strings) each for 150 naira. So much fun! 1 US dollar is exchanging for around 145 naira right now. Yep, that means a basket that is a large fruit basket size, handmade in the state just north of us, without flaws, for about a buck!
So, next time we go -- Daniela, Lucy, and I -- I'll take pictures. Lucy had such a blast -- even riding in the car was a total treat for her -- waving to workers as we drove out of the camp.
I'll write more about her, soon. I've learned so much about her difficult life. What a dear!
Before I close this out, a bit more news: I'm going to start teaching a children's Bible class and Jim and I will be starting a couples' Bible Study in the home of an Indonesian couple who are very sweet and so wanting to grow in their walk with Jesus.
So many good things, all from the Giver of all good things!
Tuesday, March 21, 2006
Sloggy Blog
The blog server has been having difficulties so if you are reading this, it's a good sign!!
I apologize for delays and will have a longer posting soon!
I apologize for delays and will have a longer posting soon!
Friday, March 17, 2006
Of brooms and spiritual disciplines
Here are the tools of the trade for some of the men who are groundskeepers/gardeners. The brooms are charming -- made from dried grasses. Most come without the handles and then the worker just stoops over to sweep.
Here's Robert -- one of my favorite workers. He's very soft-spoken and shy. But when I address him each morning, he breaks into his charming grin!These guys are amazing! They diligently do the same thing every day. The leaves fall from trees year-round so that means that every day they sweep the driveways -- same trees, just different leaves. The first time I expressed my dismay that they have to do the same thing over and over the response was, "But Madame, we know work is always here for us!" If they slack on their work even one day -- "big wahala!" (big problem!) How many years has Robert been sweeping the same roads, I wonder ...?
There's a spiritual lesson here, don't you think? While we're here on earth, we've got to apply the same diligence to our spiritual housecleaning! Same trees, different leaves!
Thursday, March 16, 2006
Delight
Greetings from our patio! It's almost done. OK, actually, we have about 5 more things that they need to do -- one involves a major drip that's pooling up in the outer part of the patio. But, it feels like such great progress that I brought a rocker and side table out to have my quiet time here this morning. Wonderful! When Lucy arrived, she burst into laughter with "Madame cannot wait any more time!!" So, I was enjoying it so much that I brought the laptop out here, too. In Paris, we bought an extra long phone line so that I could be online out here. Marvelous!!!
And I'm listening to Chris Tomlin singing You Do All Things Well! Indeed, every perfect gift is from God. "You made it all. Said 'let there be.' And there was." Those lines and the lines from Indescribable go through my mind as I walk around the camp everyday. The variety in each tree, the uniqueness of each flower on each tree is truly indescribable and uncontainable. "Who imagined the sun and gives source to its light? Yet conceals it to bring us the coolness of night?... Awestruck, we fall to our knees as we humbly proclaim, 'You are amazing, God!'" Each time I step outside, it is with a sense of anticipation in entering another new adventure. Trees that I thought weren't flowering trees suddenly are filled with little buds. New blossoms seemingly pop up over night. I was chatting with the gardeners about it yesterday and one came over to my house later, saying, "Madame, I want to show you a new flower!" We walked to the other side of the camp and he pointed with a huge grin toward an emerging blossom. Exquisite!
Every grin on every worker seems huge, I've realized, because on a dark face those white teeth just pop!!
So, today, John the Gardener (though he jokingly calls himself John the Baptist) is coming over with the rest of the new plants that he will be planting in the front of the house and around the outside of the patio. (The front entrance is UGLY -- 3 air conditioning units, some broken bricks, and gravel with some tiny struggling and neglected plants.) He already painted some cement pots and brought some great plants for them for inside the outer patio area. John is an older guy, walking with a slight shuffle and hunched over from years of kneeling in front of plants and dirt. What a dear man. I am bracing myself because I know he will occasionally ask for money or a gift because he "keeps Madame happy with her flowers." A small price to pay and certainly the guy can use a tip sometimes, oui? And tomorrow, Lucy's friend, an owner of a nursery, is bringing some potted indoor plants that I will purchase. Add to that, the little water fountain Jim bought me in Paris -- we will have ambience ready to burst! Anticipation is half of the delight!
And I'm listening to Chris Tomlin singing You Do All Things Well! Indeed, every perfect gift is from God. "You made it all. Said 'let there be.' And there was." Those lines and the lines from Indescribable go through my mind as I walk around the camp everyday. The variety in each tree, the uniqueness of each flower on each tree is truly indescribable and uncontainable. "Who imagined the sun and gives source to its light? Yet conceals it to bring us the coolness of night?... Awestruck, we fall to our knees as we humbly proclaim, 'You are amazing, God!'" Each time I step outside, it is with a sense of anticipation in entering another new adventure. Trees that I thought weren't flowering trees suddenly are filled with little buds. New blossoms seemingly pop up over night. I was chatting with the gardeners about it yesterday and one came over to my house later, saying, "Madame, I want to show you a new flower!" We walked to the other side of the camp and he pointed with a huge grin toward an emerging blossom. Exquisite!
Every grin on every worker seems huge, I've realized, because on a dark face those white teeth just pop!!
So, today, John the Gardener (though he jokingly calls himself John the Baptist) is coming over with the rest of the new plants that he will be planting in the front of the house and around the outside of the patio. (The front entrance is UGLY -- 3 air conditioning units, some broken bricks, and gravel with some tiny struggling and neglected plants.) He already painted some cement pots and brought some great plants for them for inside the outer patio area. John is an older guy, walking with a slight shuffle and hunched over from years of kneeling in front of plants and dirt. What a dear man. I am bracing myself because I know he will occasionally ask for money or a gift because he "keeps Madame happy with her flowers." A small price to pay and certainly the guy can use a tip sometimes, oui? And tomorrow, Lucy's friend, an owner of a nursery, is bringing some potted indoor plants that I will purchase. Add to that, the little water fountain Jim bought me in Paris -- we will have ambience ready to burst! Anticipation is half of the delight!
Wednesday, March 15, 2006
More Parisien Pics
How do you say "oops" in French?
OK, I'm having big trouble trying to load photos from Paris, today. I'll try again, later. Sytems are slow. (Not just the phone systems, of course, because we're back in Nigeria!! "go slow" is still the motto here!)
But my even greater "oops" was when I, in Paris, confused two similar, but different, words for "good." One, "bon," is used mainly for food as in "C'est tres bon!" for a great steak. Another, "bien," is used for describing how we're doing, like "I'm fine, thank you" --- "Je vais tres bien, merci!" So, when speaking to the attendants at the restrooms that you pay a fee to use, I said ... you guessed it ... "C'est bon!" I confirmed it today with the French teacher and with two French expats, here. It is as I feared -- I said that the toilet tasted good!
So, how do you say "a big oops" in French?
But my even greater "oops" was when I, in Paris, confused two similar, but different, words for "good." One, "bon," is used mainly for food as in "C'est tres bon!" for a great steak. Another, "bien," is used for describing how we're doing, like "I'm fine, thank you" --- "Je vais tres bien, merci!" So, when speaking to the attendants at the restrooms that you pay a fee to use, I said ... you guessed it ... "C'est bon!" I confirmed it today with the French teacher and with two French expats, here. It is as I feared -- I said that the toilet tasted good!
So, how do you say "a big oops" in French?
Paris Pics
Say "cheese!" If you look carefully, you can see the reflections of the shops across the little cobblestoned street and the folks strolling by this window!


The skies were mostly gray and the trees were barren, but the scenes were still filled with charm!
It's so cold and windy!!
It's taking so long to get these photos added that I need to stop for now. I'll add more tomorrow, providing that I can get it to work!!
Friday, March 10, 2006
Happy Thots
So, I've been thinking of the talk about "happy" back in Nigeria. I guess the contrast is strong this week because it's grey and non-friendly here in Paris. (Though, I want to be careful to clarify that when we speak directly with the French, they are very cordial. It's just that this city is so jammed with strangers.)
Are optimists more happy, in general? Are followers of Jesus more happy, in general? Where's joy fit into the whole picture? I've been accused of being an optimist as though it's equivalent to being a dumb blonde (also an accusation that comes my way!) but I don't think optimism is airheaded denial of truth. In fact, when we consider the HOPE we have in Jesus, a LIFE with Him that has already begun, optimism is actually based on embracing the truth, not denying anything. (see Romans 5:1-5) Reality is that God has set eternity in our hearts. We are all spiritual beings, whether we choose to follow Jesus or choose to reject Him and the spiritual reality is much more real than the stuff we see around us that will someday disappear. So, following Jesus makes us reality-based optimists -- Truth gives us great hope!
Following that line of reasoning, I was intrigued by an article I recently read in Christianity Today by Sarah Pulliam.
"Evangelical Protestants are the happiest people inAmerica . Or at least that's what they say. Evangelicals are 26 percent more likely to describe themselves as 'very happy' than Americans as a whole, according to a Pew Research Center survey released last month."
A deeper reading of the article makes one wonder about her opening statement, but it's thought-provoking at least. Who are those who describe themselves as "evangelicals" as opposed to other options (like "born again") and why only include evangelical protestants?
What do they mean by "happy?"
Christians in the early church didn't think happiness was very holy. Indeed, "happy" seems fairly shallow, conjuring up images of a slap-happy grin permently plastered on a face with otherwise dull eyes. So, maybe "contentment" is a better term? Contentment based upon gratitude and a thankfulness for all that we have. But how does that balance with a longing for more, spiritually? Longing to be closer to God. Not becoming complacent.
After all of this random wrestling, I've decided that:
I want to be happy in my countenance based on an inner joy and contentment,
I want to delight in all that is beautiful that God brings my way,
all while I still long for a deeper walk with my Lord,
all while I hold loosely to all things temporal.
Thus concludeth some simple, but happy, thoughts in the drizzling rain of Paris.
Are optimists more happy, in general? Are followers of Jesus more happy, in general? Where's joy fit into the whole picture? I've been accused of being an optimist as though it's equivalent to being a dumb blonde (also an accusation that comes my way!) but I don't think optimism is airheaded denial of truth. In fact, when we consider the HOPE we have in Jesus, a LIFE with Him that has already begun, optimism is actually based on embracing the truth, not denying anything. (see Romans 5:1-5) Reality is that God has set eternity in our hearts. We are all spiritual beings, whether we choose to follow Jesus or choose to reject Him and the spiritual reality is much more real than the stuff we see around us that will someday disappear. So, following Jesus makes us reality-based optimists -- Truth gives us great hope!
Following that line of reasoning, I was intrigued by an article I recently read in Christianity Today by Sarah Pulliam.
"Evangelical Protestants are the happiest people in
A deeper reading of the article makes one wonder about her opening statement, but it's thought-provoking at least. Who are those who describe themselves as "evangelicals" as opposed to other options (like "born again") and why only include evangelical protestants?
What do they mean by "happy?"
Christians in the early church didn't think happiness was very holy. Indeed, "happy" seems fairly shallow, conjuring up images of a slap-happy grin permently plastered on a face with otherwise dull eyes. So, maybe "contentment" is a better term? Contentment based upon gratitude and a thankfulness for all that we have. But how does that balance with a longing for more, spiritually? Longing to be closer to God. Not becoming complacent.
After all of this random wrestling, I've decided that:
I want to be happy in my countenance based on an inner joy and contentment,
I want to delight in all that is beautiful that God brings my way,
all while I still long for a deeper walk with my Lord,
all while I hold loosely to all things temporal.
Thus concludeth some simple, but happy, thoughts in the drizzling rain of Paris.
Wednesday, March 08, 2006
Bits of French Cuisine
The next time you're in Paris, head to the Left Bank at Rue de Sevres and Rue de Babylone. There you will find the oldest and first large department store, "grande magasin," I believe. Its a familiar name to those who have been on the west coast of the U.S. -- Bon Marche, something that is supposed to mean a market with good prices but I found it very expensive. For instance, 350 euros (1 euro = $1.19) for a peasant top that I would have loved to have bought for Karissa (we are happy to announce that Karissa is Brad's fiance -- yes, wedding bells August 19 of 2006)!!! I admired it on the hanger and walked away. Sorry, Karissa!
Anyway, I headed to Bon Marche because they have a good selection of yarn but I found something in addition to the yarn -- a great little cafe inside the store with an outdoor sitting area. The decor is all brights -- bright green, yellow, red, and pink with contoured/molded ultra-contemporary furnishings. But the food is what was amazing. The place is called "Delicubar -- Snack Chic" and boy-oh-boy, is it ever! The salads were offered by color. Yes, color! I had "salad tout verde" -- an all green salad with three types of leafies, peas in the pods, green beans, bean sprouts, brocolli, pistacios, with a pistacio balsamic vinagrette. Yum. A woman next to me had an all orange salad -- Jeri, you would love it -- carrots, mangos, papayas, ... you get the idea. Anyway -- what a great idea for those of you planning a fun spring luncheon!!!
You know the book, French Women Don't Get Fat, oui? Well, after "extensive research," I tend to agree! In all of the crowds, I've not seen anyone to characterize as FAT. I've seen a few plump folks, but they all look like tourists! With all of the walking we do around here, I guess the women can afford to eat chocolates, baguettes, pasteries, wine, cheese -- all of those nasties!! According to the book, they eat just enough to satisfy and don't fear leaving food on the plate. So far, every finished plate around us has been wiped clean with a piece of baguette so I question that reasoning for the slimness. But it can't just be the walking, or all of the treadmills in America would have accomplished something!?
Anyway, I headed to Bon Marche because they have a good selection of yarn but I found something in addition to the yarn -- a great little cafe inside the store with an outdoor sitting area. The decor is all brights -- bright green, yellow, red, and pink with contoured/molded ultra-contemporary furnishings. But the food is what was amazing. The place is called "Delicubar -- Snack Chic" and boy-oh-boy, is it ever! The salads were offered by color. Yes, color! I had "salad tout verde" -- an all green salad with three types of leafies, peas in the pods, green beans, bean sprouts, brocolli, pistacios, with a pistacio balsamic vinagrette. Yum. A woman next to me had an all orange salad -- Jeri, you would love it -- carrots, mangos, papayas, ... you get the idea. Anyway -- what a great idea for those of you planning a fun spring luncheon!!!
You know the book, French Women Don't Get Fat, oui? Well, after "extensive research," I tend to agree! In all of the crowds, I've not seen anyone to characterize as FAT. I've seen a few plump folks, but they all look like tourists! With all of the walking we do around here, I guess the women can afford to eat chocolates, baguettes, pasteries, wine, cheese -- all of those nasties!! According to the book, they eat just enough to satisfy and don't fear leaving food on the plate. So far, every finished plate around us has been wiped clean with a piece of baguette so I question that reasoning for the slimness. But it can't just be the walking, or all of the treadmills in America would have accomplished something!?
Tuesday, March 07, 2006
More Nigerian Details
From my hotel room in Paris, Port D'Orleans area to be exact, I have time to catch you up on things that happened in NGA before we left.
We moved back into "our" house on Thursday -- that was ahead of schedule which, we've been told, was a first for the contractors on the camp! Jim emailed BB (remember, Big Boss) to let him know how pleased we were with their prompt responses and thorough work. The carpets were all yanked and beneath them the tile was in great shape. It took a lot of solvent for the workers to get the glue off the tiles (the carpet was like an indoor/outdoor thin stuff that had been glued on). Carpet in NGA is not a good idea due to all of the moisture. Lucy will be able to clean the tiles daily. She loves the tiles in the sitting room because they sparkle after she's cleaned them and she says it makes her pleased to look back and smile at her work when it looks so clean! 3 ACs work and the kitchen one is getting replaced soon. The cost to run this camp is amazing -- we have 7 ACs in our house, alone. And they're on almost non-stop, depending on power outages when the generators are getting worked on. The leaks in the bathroom have been solved after much tearing out of cement walls, replumbing, etc. And they fixed a lot of little things -- caulking around the tub, etc.
"There's a better way, guys!" is something I find myself thinking often. One of the problems is that each worker just does exactly what he's told and doesn't initiate a lot of individual thinking. So, if he's supposed to paint the ceiling, he doesn't think about what that might do to the tiles on the floor, the furniture they moved into the bathroom when they were pulling carpet in the bedroom, the bathroom door, etc. So, we had to ask someone else to get the paint off of the afore mentioned items. And paint is still to be found everywhere it was not meant to be. That's representative of the style of work in general.
Lucy to the rescue -- she and I have talked about the whole workers'-style enough that she knows what "Madame" wants and this week, while we're gone, she is taking on a bunch of projects -- cleaning paint off is just the beginning. She's washing down the walls and shelves in the closets because the moldly smell permeated the wood (the closets are actually like built-in wardrobes). She's washing and ironing every curtain -- also retaining some of the odors. She's washing the couches and chairs as best she can. She's deep cleaning the bathrooms -- especially the grout/caulk stuff that can grow mold faster than you can sneeze. I anticipate that she will be beaming when we return and she shows us all that she's done. I told her that my son, Brad, would call her a tank -- and that's a compliment. So we laughed on that one because we agreed that most women wouldn't appreciate being described as a tank but she understood the meaning!
Because Lucy had been cleaning both houses and personally carried multitudes of loads of breakables and clothes back to the house herself because she didn't trust the workers (especially after the glass in the frame broke on the first little move) -- we treated her to lunch at the clubhouse. She was honored and embarrassed at the same time. She'd never been in it. I'm confident she's never eaten in any real restaurant because she didn't know about the bread plate, the extra silver, etc. She cautiously watched our every move and mimicked us. She giggled at the idea of being served by workers who live in the same maids quarters as she does. The whole thing was bizarre. She'd never experienced one-way mirrored windows and the clubhouse has one entire wall of them along the pool. She'd seen the outside from far away and knew she couldn't see in so imagine her shock when she found that you could see out. When she asked me about it, I described to her how funny it is when men walk by the windows outside and use them as a mirror to tuck in shirts and fix their hair -- another great time of laughter from Lucy!!!
We left on Friday evening, feeling very grateful for all that has been done to make our house a pleasant place to live. The 2 guys heading up the project are from India and one of them struggles with English. I think he'd done some preparation when he proudly said to me with a bow -- "It is a pleasure to work on Madame's house. Our job is to make you happy. Madame is such a positive lady (he struggled with the word 'positive' so I know he'd looked it up or asked another one who speaks his language) that it brings us great joy to work for you. Whatever you need -- new furniture, something built, something fixed -- we are neighbors so please ask any one of us. When you are happy, we are happy." And then he said something about because I'm always happy, they are always happy and laughed!!!
These are all such lovable people! It's weird, but, I really enjoy hanging out with the workers more than the residents -- the gardeners, Christian (the produce guy), the drivers, etc. So many of them love Jesus and it's just great to visit with them. They have so little yet they have such joy. Whereas the residents have so much but just think about what they don't have that they're used to!! I'm getting more opportunities to encourage the residents, though. One gal wanted some counsel about her marriage of six years. She's a recording artist in Indonesia and she's put her life on hold for her husbands' career. We'll talk more, I'm sure. Another gal, one of the French women, wants me to teach her boys about Christianity. She's agnostic but wants them exposed to all beliefs. She's proud of being tolerant of all faiths. And she's very tolerant of Islam. But she doesn't see how very biased her view of Christianity is!!! (and her view of Bush, Houstonians -- she lived in Houston for 4 years, U.S., etc.)
What great adventures await us upon our return to Nigeria!!!
We moved back into "our" house on Thursday -- that was ahead of schedule which, we've been told, was a first for the contractors on the camp! Jim emailed BB (remember, Big Boss) to let him know how pleased we were with their prompt responses and thorough work. The carpets were all yanked and beneath them the tile was in great shape. It took a lot of solvent for the workers to get the glue off the tiles (the carpet was like an indoor/outdoor thin stuff that had been glued on). Carpet in NGA is not a good idea due to all of the moisture. Lucy will be able to clean the tiles daily. She loves the tiles in the sitting room because they sparkle after she's cleaned them and she says it makes her pleased to look back and smile at her work when it looks so clean! 3 ACs work and the kitchen one is getting replaced soon. The cost to run this camp is amazing -- we have 7 ACs in our house, alone. And they're on almost non-stop, depending on power outages when the generators are getting worked on. The leaks in the bathroom have been solved after much tearing out of cement walls, replumbing, etc. And they fixed a lot of little things -- caulking around the tub, etc.
"There's a better way, guys!" is something I find myself thinking often. One of the problems is that each worker just does exactly what he's told and doesn't initiate a lot of individual thinking. So, if he's supposed to paint the ceiling, he doesn't think about what that might do to the tiles on the floor, the furniture they moved into the bathroom when they were pulling carpet in the bedroom, the bathroom door, etc. So, we had to ask someone else to get the paint off of the afore mentioned items. And paint is still to be found everywhere it was not meant to be. That's representative of the style of work in general.
Lucy to the rescue -- she and I have talked about the whole workers'-style enough that she knows what "Madame" wants and this week, while we're gone, she is taking on a bunch of projects -- cleaning paint off is just the beginning. She's washing down the walls and shelves in the closets because the moldly smell permeated the wood (the closets are actually like built-in wardrobes). She's washing and ironing every curtain -- also retaining some of the odors. She's washing the couches and chairs as best she can. She's deep cleaning the bathrooms -- especially the grout/caulk stuff that can grow mold faster than you can sneeze. I anticipate that she will be beaming when we return and she shows us all that she's done. I told her that my son, Brad, would call her a tank -- and that's a compliment. So we laughed on that one because we agreed that most women wouldn't appreciate being described as a tank but she understood the meaning!
Because Lucy had been cleaning both houses and personally carried multitudes of loads of breakables and clothes back to the house herself because she didn't trust the workers (especially after the glass in the frame broke on the first little move) -- we treated her to lunch at the clubhouse. She was honored and embarrassed at the same time. She'd never been in it. I'm confident she's never eaten in any real restaurant because she didn't know about the bread plate, the extra silver, etc. She cautiously watched our every move and mimicked us. She giggled at the idea of being served by workers who live in the same maids quarters as she does. The whole thing was bizarre. She'd never experienced one-way mirrored windows and the clubhouse has one entire wall of them along the pool. She'd seen the outside from far away and knew she couldn't see in so imagine her shock when she found that you could see out. When she asked me about it, I described to her how funny it is when men walk by the windows outside and use them as a mirror to tuck in shirts and fix their hair -- another great time of laughter from Lucy!!!
We left on Friday evening, feeling very grateful for all that has been done to make our house a pleasant place to live. The 2 guys heading up the project are from India and one of them struggles with English. I think he'd done some preparation when he proudly said to me with a bow -- "It is a pleasure to work on Madame's house. Our job is to make you happy. Madame is such a positive lady (he struggled with the word 'positive' so I know he'd looked it up or asked another one who speaks his language) that it brings us great joy to work for you. Whatever you need -- new furniture, something built, something fixed -- we are neighbors so please ask any one of us. When you are happy, we are happy." And then he said something about because I'm always happy, they are always happy and laughed!!!
These are all such lovable people! It's weird, but, I really enjoy hanging out with the workers more than the residents -- the gardeners, Christian (the produce guy), the drivers, etc. So many of them love Jesus and it's just great to visit with them. They have so little yet they have such joy. Whereas the residents have so much but just think about what they don't have that they're used to!! I'm getting more opportunities to encourage the residents, though. One gal wanted some counsel about her marriage of six years. She's a recording artist in Indonesia and she's put her life on hold for her husbands' career. We'll talk more, I'm sure. Another gal, one of the French women, wants me to teach her boys about Christianity. She's agnostic but wants them exposed to all beliefs. She's proud of being tolerant of all faiths. And she's very tolerant of Islam. But she doesn't see how very biased her view of Christianity is!!! (and her view of Bush, Houstonians -- she lived in Houston for 4 years, U.S., etc.)
What great adventures await us upon our return to Nigeria!!!
Monday, March 06, 2006
Never a dull moment!
So, the other expats say we should leave Nigeria every couple of months just to survive living there. Mmmm. If the experience at the airport was typical, which they say it was, then getting out is much worse than staying!!! Basically -- everyone helping wants a bribe, that includes the paid staff of the airport; it's hot and filled with all sorts of odors, body being minor; the passengers, mainly men, get a bit uptight and drunk while they wait to board; and the whole event from leaving camp to boarding the plane takes about 4 hours. But now that we're in Paris, mais oui, it is worth the hassle!
Mosquitos are to be taken very seriously. We must take our Malarone tablets while we are gone and we have to have malaria curative treatments with us at all times because the incubation period is one week to 60 days after a bite. Well, Air France takes those little critters quite seriously -- they "fogged" the plane after we were all aboard, walking up and down the aisles while spraying a mist on us all. They assured us that it is environmentally safe ...! Strange to feel like we were contaminated!
We've been in Paris 2 days and I have about 1/3 of my shopping list completed. There are so many basics that are just not available in Nigeria so we brought 3 empty suitcases with us to Paris. Truly, it's not the cheapest place but we've taken advantage of some benefits to visitors and have saved some money thus far. We're getting things like -- a good bed pillow (we packed one in our sea shipment but that may not arrive for another 5 months!), umbrellas, hand soap, hand towels, candles, ... We'll get some food items before we leave.
The two foods I'm missing the most are -- plain ole steak and Chipotle!! OK, so Chipotle's success hasn't reached Paris, yet. But we did have a decent steak -- tres bon! I'm working on figuring out how to make Mexican food in Nigeria -- some of the ingredients are available and certainly I can learn to make tortillas so we're hopeful!
Our waiter last night was terrific -- he gave mini French lessons throughout the evening. True, he was a bit of a flirt; I was glad Jim was there, especially when he offered dessert -- "coffee, tea, or me!" followed by a quick "just kidding" directed toward Jim. He's so friendly, many of the French are. But, oh my, try walking down the sidewalk -- it's survival of the fittest and we're clearly not very fit. And the Louvre was filled with people who were in the "every man for himself" mode -- he who hesitates is lost, for sure! Jim and I were forever being separated in the crowd. We are constantly comparing the culture here to our recent experiences in Nigeria. The Nigerians win in the "friendly" category!
It's strange how we're missing our new friends in Nigeria. We've been there such a short time but it was becoming familiar, which counts for a lot!! Of course, we're missing all of you and think of you, pray for you, and speak of you, often. I have access to a very good email set up, here -- we just paid for a week's worth of use. So, feel free to add comments here or email me.
I'll post more photos when we're back in NGA.
Mosquitos are to be taken very seriously. We must take our Malarone tablets while we are gone and we have to have malaria curative treatments with us at all times because the incubation period is one week to 60 days after a bite. Well, Air France takes those little critters quite seriously -- they "fogged" the plane after we were all aboard, walking up and down the aisles while spraying a mist on us all. They assured us that it is environmentally safe ...! Strange to feel like we were contaminated!
We've been in Paris 2 days and I have about 1/3 of my shopping list completed. There are so many basics that are just not available in Nigeria so we brought 3 empty suitcases with us to Paris. Truly, it's not the cheapest place but we've taken advantage of some benefits to visitors and have saved some money thus far. We're getting things like -- a good bed pillow (we packed one in our sea shipment but that may not arrive for another 5 months!), umbrellas, hand soap, hand towels, candles, ... We'll get some food items before we leave.
The two foods I'm missing the most are -- plain ole steak and Chipotle!! OK, so Chipotle's success hasn't reached Paris, yet. But we did have a decent steak -- tres bon! I'm working on figuring out how to make Mexican food in Nigeria -- some of the ingredients are available and certainly I can learn to make tortillas so we're hopeful!
Our waiter last night was terrific -- he gave mini French lessons throughout the evening. True, he was a bit of a flirt; I was glad Jim was there, especially when he offered dessert -- "coffee, tea, or me!" followed by a quick "just kidding" directed toward Jim. He's so friendly, many of the French are. But, oh my, try walking down the sidewalk -- it's survival of the fittest and we're clearly not very fit. And the Louvre was filled with people who were in the "every man for himself" mode -- he who hesitates is lost, for sure! Jim and I were forever being separated in the crowd. We are constantly comparing the culture here to our recent experiences in Nigeria. The Nigerians win in the "friendly" category!
It's strange how we're missing our new friends in Nigeria. We've been there such a short time but it was becoming familiar, which counts for a lot!! Of course, we're missing all of you and think of you, pray for you, and speak of you, often. I have access to a very good email set up, here -- we just paid for a week's worth of use. So, feel free to add comments here or email me.
I'll post more photos when we're back in NGA.
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